What is Seven of Wands advising?

Standing your ground. Defending a boundary, a position, a piece of work.

You have the high ground and the advantage. Use it and do not apologise, which is the instruction people struggle with when the challenge comes from somebody they like.

Its realism is the good part: the defender is not prepared and is not losing. The card does not require you to feel ready in order to hold something.

Overwhelmed by the number of challenges, or giving up a position you had earned.

The second is worth distinguishing from a decision. Conceding because it is no longer worth defending is fine; conceding because the defending is exhausting is the reversal, and the two feel identical on the day.

Also read for defensiveness where no attack was made, which is the version everybody around the person can see and they cannot.

Upright: defence, standing firm, conviction, challenge, perseverance

Reversed: overwhelmed, giving up, defensiveness, exhaustion

• What am I defending, and is it still worth the energy?
• Where am I defensive about something nobody has attacked?