King of WandsKing of Wands · In Love
What does King of Wands mean in love?
King of Wands in a love or relationship reading. What it says about connection, what it asks of you, and how it changes upright versus reversed.
In love and relationships
A committed, protective, decisive partner with a strong sense of direction.
He is warm, generous and certain, and the certainty is the thing to watch: a partner who knows what the two of you are doing is reassuring right up to the point where you wanted to be asked.
Reversed, somebody who leads a relationship without consulting it. That is rarely deliberate and is usually experienced by the other person as a slow loss of say in their own life.
As somebody's feelings, he reads as decided, warm and protective: this person has made up their mind about you and is unlikely to be subtle about it.
Upright
Leadership with vision behind it. Take charge.
Long-range thinking backed by the authority to execute, which is the combination that distinguishes him from the Knight: the same fire, aimed, and answerable for where it lands.
Bold, decisive, and genuinely responsible for the outcome. That last part is what makes him a king rather than an enthusiast, and it is the part that is hardest to sustain.
Reversed
Domineering, impatient with anybody slower, all vision and no delivery.
The impatience is the most common and the most costly, because it removes exactly the people who would have executed the vision.
Also read for a leader who has stopped listening, which usually begins as confidence that was earned and hardens into an assumption that the room has nothing to add.
Keywords
Upright: leadership, vision, entrepreneurship, authority, decisiveness
Reversed: domineering, impatience, overreach, all talk
Journal prompts
- What am I the natural leader of that I have not stepped into?
- Where is my impatience costing me the people I need?
Draw it for yourself
Reading about a card is not the same as drawing one. A single-card reading takes about a minute and answers your question rather than a general one.